It’s another one of those mornings. You wake up with a little light peeking through your heavy curtains. You stretch your foot slowly to feel if someone is beside you. There isn’t. You wrap yourself in a duvet to cover up the loneliness.
At the corner of the bedroom, you button up your shirt while you watch her stretch her foot out and cover herself in a duvet. You leave for work without saying good bye.
You jump off from your bed as soon as you hear him leave. You shake it off, whatever it is you’re feeling. You take a long shower and get yourself ready for school, for work, anything that will keep you busy.
You sit in the office contemplating whether you should come home early. You remember the times when you were excited to come home. She would eagerly wait by the door to hug you and to take your coat off. You remember her eager smile, that smile takes all the tiredness away. You don’t see that anymore.
You cut short the fun you’re having with your friends because you need to go home. You wonder when did “I will pick you up wherever you are so we can come home together.” turn to “Okay see you there.” Regardless, you have to be home, standing by the door when he comes. It’s your routine. It’s what perfect partners do, you remind yourself. You remember there was a time when you were excited to hear him come home, just the sound of him parking his car outside makes you so happy. Now, it’s exhausting. It almost feels like a job you hate to do.
You park your car and stay inside a little longer. For some reason, you feel that you have to prepare yourself before you go inside the house. You doubted if she would be by the door but she is. She hugs you coldly then takes your jacket off without looking at you. She solemnly tells you dinner is ready.
You see something lying on the floor that you hate so much to see – scattered shoes. You hate this about her. You’ve asked her several times to clean up after herself but she still doesn’t do it. You sat down on the dining table. I don’t want to do this again, you tell yourself. You hate to start an argument.
You stare at her as she eats quietly. Her eyes look tired. She looks exhausted. She laughs softly on a video she saw from her phone. You realized you haven’t heard her genuinely laugh for a long time too. You take a deep breath then start a conversation.
It’s the same thing. He’s talking about the same thing again. You try so hard to focus on what he’s talking about and not let your mind drift away. You’re a good listener; yes that’s what you are. You think about the times when conversations weren’t forced, weren’t about money or who is going to do this and that.
You hear him laugh which amuses you. What is funny? And when was the last time he made you laugh? You don’t remember. But you do remember when he would do absolutely everything for you, to make you smile, to make you happy. You remember when you loved to listen to his voice and when the silence between you was full of warmth and comfort, not full of tension and burden. His voice is so annoying now that you almost can’t stand his presence.
You’re out of things to say. You can’t seem to find a common interest anymore. She’s inattentive. She obviously doesn’t care. You noticed that she moved the sofa to another spot. You talked about doing it together. When did you stop doing things together? Your eyes fall on the scattered shoes. You can’t take it anymore. Everything is a mess every time you come home.
“What did you do today? Why are your shoes all over the floor.”
“I will clean it up.”
“No, I will do it.“
“I will do it. Those are MY shoes.”
“Let me. I do everything here anyway.” You realize you’ve now been shouting at her for 10 minutes. She wouldn’t say anything anymore. You say the most painful things you could say to get something out of her, a reaction, anything.
You try your best to stay calm and quiet. You don’t want to say anything you would regret. You know that if you say how you truly feel, he will be crushed and you don’t want that. It will haunt you for the rest of your life if you hurt his feelings. But he wouldn’t stop; he just would not shut up. You say something back. Something you know would crush him. He deserves this. You walk out and lock yourself inside your room.
There she goes again, locking herself up in the bedroom. It was painful, what she said. It hurt everything especially your ego. You knock on her door and shout something more offensive, she’s a terrible partner, she’s useless, and anything else you can think of. She remains quiet. You knock on her door for more than an hour, your demanding tone gradually becomes begging.
You don’t want to do this anymore. You hate to argue. You regret every word you say the moment it leaves your mouth.
You suddenly hear her crying. Why did you have to be like this? Why did you make her cry? You hate yourself.
No one has ever made you cry like this before. You’ve never been hurt. You don’t deserve this, you tell yourself. He promised to love you, to take care of you. You hear him begging for you to open the door, saying sorry over and over again, asking to hug you but you don’t want to be touched. I’m done. I’m done, you say.
You tremble at the thought of her leaving you. You’ve never heard her cry like this before. Why did I have to be the one to hurt the love of my life? How could I have hurt her so much?
You wake up with the decision to leave, to break up. You sign the divorce papers. You know you would never love a man like this again. But you also know you can’t go through the same thing over and over. You refuse to be hurt again. This house is now too congested for you. This isn’t home any longer. You take a long walk outside, hoping to breathe fresh air in the park.
You struggle to think of things to keep her. You rush to buy everything she likes, her favourite food, her favourite things, everything. You want to surprise her like the old days. Maybe this isn’t a good time but you’re desperate to be forgiven, to not lose her. You write a long letter because you know she doesn’t like talking. You cry your heart out begging the heavens to not take her away from you.
You’re trembling as you walk up to your house. Please be there, please be there. You slowly open the door. You see her standing there, looking at you meaningfully. She takes your jacket. You hug her. You look around and see her scattered shoes and pieces of torn paper.
You smile and have dinner quietly, together.
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